singlehood

… kinda sucks. I think people who say “single life is great!” are only saying that to make themselves feel better. Sure, they say they love the freedom to do whatever they want, flirt with whoever and not commit. Probably fun for a while, but not for a year!

Yes! Its been a WHOLE year since I’ve been with anyone. There had been close encounters here and there, but it didn’t work out one way or another. Am I picky ? Is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with women ? (I think the answer is the last one).

About this time last year, I got my heart ripped to shreds by this ex of mine. Oh yeah, we’re good friends now but I don’t understand why she did what she did. I don’t want to know either, but that 7 year old story is over as far as I know. The other day, I tried bringing up old memories just to feel something, but I couldn’t. I couldn’t even feel sad. Does that mean I can’t feel anything anymore? OH NO

Its not like I can complain to my best friend either. She’s even more cynical than me, although I suspect she’s actually really soft inside. Plus, she never approves of any girls I date/interested in, so something I keep it a secret. I don’t know, I don’t approve of hers either, perhaps we’re a bit too over-protective. You see, if she dates someone, that means less time to hang out with me and vice-versa so we’re not entirely unbiased I supposed.

Speaking of that, I’m kinda interested in someone right now. Too early to say, but I’m just trying to get to know her better. My radar is way off and I can’t tell if she’s interested. I don’t even know what to do anymore! I’m rusty!

The less I say about that, the better!

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“can i be u fren? asl?” is always a good way to start.. lol.

>> jasonphoon replied:

ohhhhh that is SO 90s!

 
>> ahbonk replied:

18/yes/anywhere

 
 
Michelle said:

Eh, hang around yahoo chatrooms, pretend to be a girl, and get involved with perverts already. Then I’m sure that you won’t say you don’t feel anything. Because trust me, you will feel very disgusted.

Being single is not bad. Most of my friends, even the tomboyish girl from my glass, already had a boyfriend. The one that doesn’t have anyone around yet is me. Sometimes, I feel a bit pressured to be in a relationship but hey, I love my life the way it is. Think about it, you don’t need to fork out money to pay for movies, posh-rosh dinners, waste your time trying to think whether to tell your girlfriend if she’s fat/skinny ( either way you will die ) and try to please her parents.

You’re free to do whatever you want!

>> jasonphoon replied:

hi-five fellow single!

It’s not fun for too long!

And what the hell are you doing hanging around yahoo chatrooms?

Those sound like a few cons , you forgot to mention the long list of pros!

 
 
Mei yang yang said:

From “Bob”
too long, didn’t read

 
 
Princess E said:

Hahahaha…. Mind dating older gals? ^_^

>> jasonphoon replied:

haha no non on ….

wait , how much older ? hmmmm

 
 
 
Lullaby said:

Have faith maybe? and stop being cynical? Duno. lol..

>> jasonphoon replied:

do I sound cynical ? yes i do :(

>> Lullaby replied:

Stop then. When you stop being cynical, you will be happier :)

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>> Daniel replied:

But that’s like saying “Jason Phoon! Stop being so Jason Phoon!”

 
 
 
 
Aggie said:

Something wrong with women?! If I have to wait five years to smack you then I just might have to…but seriously you’ve only been single for a year and you think you’re rusty? I’ve known people who’ve been single for much much longer and…..oh wait nvm… ;)

>> jasonphoon replied:

in 5 years , we’ll be … 32 ! WHOAH

“I’ve known people who’ve been single for much much longer and…..oh wait nvm… ”

now u get what i mean!!!

>> Anonymous replied:

Haha you’ll be 32, I won’t though!:D

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>> jasonphoon replied:

what ?

You’ll be older ??? MUahahha

 
>> aggie replied:

Yes…yes of course I’ll be older! Didn’t you know? ;)

 
>> jasonphoon replied:

ohnoes , how old are you ???

 
 
 
 
Sulo said:

Dude, being single was great! But not all the time. Everything has its own set of pros and cons.You’ve been single only for a year la doink (smack on head!). It’s all a matter of timing…hheheheheNOTHING WRONG WITH WOMEN!!!!!

 
Sulo said:

oooo….forgot..bout the person u’re interested now…just GO WITH THE FLOW….dont make assumptions…dont try too hard …wokay ah??

 
 
Kurt said:

well you can always try being a part-time serial killer and fake all your social interactions to fit in…

>> jasonphoon replied:

How do you know I’ve not been faking it all along ??

 
 
Cen said:

whoa! I’ve been single for 3 years plus and never feel as great as ever! Even those in relationship do hv problem themselves. But anyways, if you need a relationship to make you happy, then get one. All the best in pursuing the girl, and agree with Sulo, don’t make assumptions or trying too hard, just let it flow and be natural =)

PS : I think you and your ( female ) best friend can be a couple =D

>> jasonphoon replied:

my best friend ? nOn no oO nnono nO n ono n o no o o o non n noooooooooooooooooo

 
 
Esther said:

“Am I picky ? Is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with women ? (I think the answer is the last one).” yeah, it’s always the blame on women! :(
maybe you wanna check on your gaydar. who knows what you might find, since there’s something wrong with women anyway. :P lol

>> jasonphoon replied:

well, not that I experimented or anything, but I’m pretty sure I’m straight :)

as much as there is a lot of things wrong with women, u can’t live without them either right ? sigh

 
 
Nabilla said:

this probably the first i ever hear you complaining about being single! always thought you were living the high life of a player. hope it works out with this new one! (who is she? why didn’t say anything oso during breakfast?)

 
Shayne said:

oooooh

who who who? so curious right now…it’s killing meeee…

 
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